5 Things a Womanizer won’t Admit…

We all have that one friend is is the master at somehow scoring the girl that no one else had the guts to get. Or you may even be that guy yourself. But one thing that the Ladies Man has in common with others like himself are 10 secrets that we rarely admit to, and those are…

1.   90% of Ladies men have had their hearts broken, badly.

We may try to maintain that no girl has ever gotten the best of us, but the real truth is that most womanizer’s at one time were deeply in love with someone who used their hearts like a Wednesday paper to swat a fly.

2. Women, you made us this way.

I hear all the time how much a girl just wants to find “Mr. Right”, but she can’t sift through all the guys with bad motives and eager appetite to get it and quit it. Well here is a secret ladies, your species likes to kill the good guys off early on. And here is why. Women like excitement, and they like to be challenged, and for some reason, the gentle and kind spirit of a man who would give anything to please his woman is the one who gets used and abused. The mistreatment of the nice guy eventually leads to the Womanizer as we know him in this article, a cold hearted, self serving man who could care less about summer plans with the Misses parents, or watching The Notebook. So if ladies want to blame anyone, they should blame themselves.

3.  We are all self conscience about something.

This can be true of most anyone, but especially in the womanizers case. The only real difference between the womanizer and your average Joe is that the ladies man has learned to transform his insecurities into arrogance and self confidence that make him ironically even more desirable to women who he is chasing.

4.   Some of us are still romantics at heart.

While your unlikely to get any womanizers standing up to admit this, some ladies men really still want to love, but are so lost in the game of chatting up women and meeting new ones that hope looks slim and they often times forget what the word even means. But like they say, it takes one woman to change a man forever…

5. Someone taught us almost everything we know.

While this may not seem like such a revelation, a lot of guy’s nowadays try to pretend like they came across their lady alluring skills by chance. Not so. Most guy’s I know who are popular with women have had a ‘Mentor’, a former womanizer who fell in love and got married, and, for fear of the knowledge he used being lost forever like some precious treasure, he found some eager ears to pass the knowledge on to.

Hopefully, some of these have been informative to both sexes, and maybe now that the cat is out of the bag, some of these can be rectified by the right people. Or not. As they said in the old days, “The show must go on.”